THE SINCERE ME

 Have you ever met someone for the first time and you just dislike or hate the person, well this happen to everyone and can be very bad if you are at the receiving end. So are you wondering why someone who has never interacted with you before hate you?  There are actually several reasons why this could happen and that is what this write up is all about.  The first reason I will be talking about is Jealousy/envy , humans tend to hate who they can't become and so it is easy for people to question your success and achievement when they are jealous of you. Another reason could be if a person is toxic , they would probably hate you especially if  you are a nice or jovial person. This could be as a result of their upbringing when they were young so if a person was trained to hate people from a particular religion, the person might always find him/her self hating people from that particular religion even after becoming an adult. Some people also hate others because they have something the

Being a Nigeria means a lot of things, one of them is saying "failure is not my portion, success is mine, I shall be the head and not the tail" and so on. While this declarations are good considering Nigerians are religious people and it is also good for positive mindset they are really not too realistic because failure do happen and it is sometimes the best thing to happen at the time. Failing a test or exam, not securing a job, not being able to meet a target at work, not getting admission for a program, or even running down a business are all examples of failure. Though Failing is normally said in regards to students and examination, it cuts across every areas of life. People say failure is the opposite or lack of success but I feel a better definition will be failure is the stepping stone to success. We have read and seen stories of great people like Oprah Winfrey, Thomas Edison who had to fail multiple times before becoming great. So the question is what should I do when

  What really is love??? Love love love... this is a four letter word that is said everyday in different circumstances: the mother speaking to her son, the love struck young boy to his partner, the guest speaker to his listeners, the preacher speaking about God. Everyone actually have a definition of love.. but really, what is love or better still what should love be? Dictionary will tell us that love is having deep affection for someone, but love is much more than just these complex grammars, love is more than just the feelings, but is much in the act, love is not about the saying but in the doing. Love is commitment...holding on ... never giving up... not looking back... still believing...not faltering...  Love is pain... enduring... tolerating... accepting...forgiving... Love is sacrifice... giving it all... not holding back... not expecting returns... Love comes with a price...a price paid by the giver not the receiver....going against the natural order of law... Love is forgiving

Procrastination  is a deadly vice that can affect one's life negatively. It is a habit that one has to consciously fight against. Procrastination can range from not doing a simple house chores to not finishing a school project. There are different reasons why people procrastinate, one of the most common reason is lack of motivation. For example most students will not do their homework if they do not like the subject or if they do not know what to do. Procrastination may necessary not be laziness or bad time management but should be seen more as an emotional problem. Procrastination can affect your life in different ways, let us take a look at some of these ways: Causes You to Make Bad Decision When you fail to make a decision at the right time, there is possibility that by the time you finally make the decision which will definitely be a rush time, you will make a bad decision. If you want to get a new shoe for an event for example and you wait till a day before the event, there

Compulsive Buying has led a lot of people to debt, most of these people do not even know that they have a problem, they just find out that they earn so much and yet they owe as much as they earn. So is compulsive buying really a disorder??? Compulsive Buying can be considered a disorder as it is associated by the uncontrollable act of purchasing items despite negative financial consequences. People suffering from compulsive buying disorder are often diagnosed with other mental health conditions such as eating disorder, substance use disorder, mood disorder, gambling and so on.     What is Compulsive Buying Disorder Compulsive Buying Disorder is a preoccupation with shopping that can cause distress and harm the afflicted persons life.  Compulsive shopping can be chronic, repetitive, difficult to control and results in harmful consequences.  Studies has shown that between 80% and 95% of people who engage in compulsive shopping are women. The items normally purchased are not necessarily e