Have you ever met someone for the first time and you just dislike or hate the person, well this happen to everyone and can be very bad if you are at the receiving end. So are you wondering why someone who has never interacted with you before hate you? There are actually several reasons why this could happen and that is what this write up is all about.
Some people also hate others because they have something they want, for example, if you are dating someone and they like that person, it is very sure that they would hate you because you have something that they want to have. Others are just frustrated and that has translated to them being toxic or hateful to people. They are others bizare reasons like your colour, your religion, the country you are from, your looks, the way you talk and so many other strange reasons why a person hates you.
While hating someone is bad, there could actually be some excusable reasons. Bullied children can hate anyone who look like their last bully, adopted children might not like their adoptive parents, children tend to hate their step parents, traumatized people might hate any one who remind them of their trauma. To the outside world, they might not have a reason to hate but in reality, they actually do whether you acknowledge it or not.
Another one could be their intuition and instinct. There is an unexplained accuracy to instinct and there is something within telling them to guard themselves from you. That is just part of being human and there is really nothing you can do about it. So rather than try to puzzle it out, you should try to avoid them and keep leaving the best of your life.
How about: as much as you avoid haters, you don't also become a hateful person? Some cases can be attached to biases and not necessarily hate.
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